Waiting To Be Mended

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Waiting To Be Mended

Comments Off 30 January 2011

The lyrics to the song go something like this, “She’s a broken lady waiting to be mended; like a potter would mend a broken vase. A broken lady waiting to be mended…” (Lyrics and song recorded by Larry Gatlin ©).  We are all broken people in some form or fashion.  We have all paid our dues in ways we would rather forget.

I’m waiting to be mended.  I, no doubt, have awhile to go.  I think we all take three steps forward and ten steps back searching and trying to figure out where to go, what to do and why!  All of us need to be healed. All of us need to be cleansed, picked up and put back on the right track.

Scripture teaches us, “He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; by his wounds you have been healed” (1 Peter 2: 24). Through God’s healing we are restored and put back together. It is God that does the mending.

God takes the time to refurbish and renovate all the little quirks and idiosyncrasies that we all live with and try to cover up and hide.  What a job he does on us!

Last summer I stumbled on to an old piece of furniture.  It was made out of splintering barn wood and my daughter wanted it in her house.  However, the rough splintering barn wood was more dangerous than beautiful.  We ended up buying the piece and taking it home.  It sat in the garage for about three months until we decided we would just sand it and try to eliminate the splinters in return for the beautiful wood underneath.  Following several hours of sanding and buffing the little cabinet began to emerge with a personality all its own.  It was actually a beautiful piece of furniture hidden beneath the sharp, splintering old barn wood.

The story of the potter in the Bible says a lot for what God does in our lives.  He builds us, molds us, shapes us and repairs us to become all we can through him who loves us.  Any name can be inserted into the lyrics of the song; your name, my name, your neighbor or boss’s name.  Bottom line, we are all broken people.  We are out of order, conked out, wrecked and totally gone kaput!

Only God can repair the kaput in you and me.  He’s an expert handling brokenness and the shatterings of life.  We’ve been reduced to rumble more than once and God, in his mercy, just keeps altering and remolding our rubble. He rearranges us, cleans us up and resets us straight—ready to go again.

Psalm 121 says, “I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot slip—he who watches over you will not slumber; indeed, he who watches over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD watches over you—the LORD is your shade at your right hand; the sun will not harm you by day, nor the moon by night. The LORD will keep you from all harm—he will watch over your life; the LORD will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore” (Psalm 121).

God specializes in broken people.  He has been doing it for a long time.  I’m a broken lady, waiting to be mended. I’m the broken vase the potter is going to heal. How about your brokenness?  Need a little mending?

Be Blessed This Day!

It Takes Practice

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It Takes Practice

Comments Off 23 January 2011

All of us know that it takes practice to get better at something. It doesn’t matter if it is sports of some kind like golf, football, or team roping it takes time and commitment to get better and better until you are able to compete and perform adequately. It takes practice to be a better guitar player or band member.  It takes practice to learn new skills or operate big machinery. It takes time and practice to even be a better parent. However, it also takes practice to become a better person.

I’ve always had a bad habit of opening my mouth and speaking when I should keep it shut.  I also have a bad habit of hearing but not really listening.  Regardless, like sports or anything else it takes practice to improve. It takes time and practice to be better at most anything.

Old habits are hard to break and it takes discipline, commitment, and courage to implement new habits and make changes. When we operate on bad habits alone it brings us down and creates stress and turmoil in our lives.

It doesn’t matter if your weakness is anger, frustration, lack of patience, being late for work–whatever you deal with that needs changing it is going to take practice. We must all work to perform better and focus on getting better and improving our lives. We have to practice learning to be patient. We have to practice at not getting angry or frustrated. I have to practice watching my mouth and learning to listen.

Sometimes practice is hard….just ask any football player or athlete who spends a lot of time on the practice field. A great deal of the time practice is demanding but the more you do it and the better you get the easier it is. Anything worthwhile takes effort, commitment, discipline and focus.

God says we must practice our faith. That involves learning to be kind, practicing patience, practicing listening and hearing what others say. It takes practice to “let it go” when someone steps on your toes or hurts you. It takes practice to overlook someone who is hurting and taking it out on you. It takes practice to get to work on time. It takes practice to forgive and forget. It takes practice to be kind instead of criticize. Good habits of any kind take practice to incorporate.

I’m practicing at keeping my mouth shut. I’m practicing not to cuss anymore. I’m practicing to listen more to what others have to say. I’m practicing being kinder and more forgiving. Sometimes it is so hard. Sometimes I take two steps forward and ten steps back.  The more I work at it the more prevalent it is in my mind. It is slowly getting better and easier. I don’t have it all down yet but hopefully I’m making some progress.

I did an interview with team roper Walt Woodward for a magazine article I was writing and I asked him what his game plan was going into the National Finals of Team Roping was.  His comment was he wanted to just make three good practice runs.  He wanted to rope at the National Finals of Team Roping with the focus and intensity he used in the practice pen. He wanted three solid runs with no mistakes; he wanted to utilize all the right things he had practiced.

You live your faith by doing the right things. A lot of our faith is all about how we treat and minister to others. It isn’t the easiest thing to do but it does make us stop and think and it involves changing for the better.

What are you practicing for? Are there some old habits that need changed? Do you need to start practicing some new ones? I know I sure need lots of practice. Thank goodness God hasn’t given up on me? He is a good coach and gives me the incentive and the time to practice and learn new and better things. He prompts me to change.  He never condemns me but convicts me to do better. I don’t always get it right but through God in me I’m slowly getting there. What about you?  How is your practice going?

Be Blessed This Day!
Melinda Clements

Your Message

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Your Message

Comments Off 16 January 2011

Who you are and what you stand for is important.  Realize it or not you have a testimony to give today.  How you present yourself and the message others see in you is pertinent. Sometimes we are the only Bible others have to see or go by and that makes you extraordinary and unique.

Realize it or not God is going to use you today.  The things you say and the choices you make are indicative of who God is in you and you have to understand others are watching carefully.  We may think no one notices or cares but that is far from the truth.  It is the little things, the seemingly mindless no brainer that make a difference in not only our lives but the lives of others. God uses those on a day to day basis.  It is the smile or helping hand you offer to someone else, it is the kind word and reassuring hug, it is the gift you give of yourself that makes a difference in someone else’s life.

Who you and where you’ve been is what determines where you are going and why. God never promised it would be easy or fun.  In fact, you can be pretty sure some of the experiences will be the toughest and hardest you will ever have to handle or experience.  The good thing is you are not in this all alone.  You don’t have to fly solo.  Your message is your calling.  It is how God is going to utilize you and it is your fuel for thought, your lesson to share and what God needs you to do.

You may ask yourself, “What could I possibly have to share with others?  What can they learn from me?” Don’t ever sell yourself short.  You are a holy and righteous child of the living God.  Even with all your little quirks, faults, idiosyncrasies, burdens, mistakes and screw ups God loves you and you are special. Don’t ever forget that.  So you don’t feel holy; so you struggle and have issues.  Don’t we all!  We are the clay in the hands of the potter and he is molding us and using us to make us better. He is also using that to make others better as well.  We are an unfinished, unrefined, ongoing  in progress work of God Almighty.  Don’t ever forget that.

Stand up tall, take a deep breath and look around.  Be proud and humble in who you are and who God is in you.  We all have something to share, something to give to others, some testimony to show how God is working and changing us and that give others hope and inspiration.  It is the message God wants us to share.  My goodness, if there is hope for me there certainly must be optimism and hope for others.  If God can change you and I think what he can do with someone else.

We rarely get it right and we always have 20/20 hindsight.  All of us have said at one point in time “if only”, “what if”, or “why”!  All of us look back and wish we had done things differently.  All of us can see how things might have been better or different if we had been thinking or made different choices.  The important thing is to keep moving and looking forward.  Let God use you and give him all that stuff you can’t handle.  He has been carrying loads for a long time, he knows the routine and more importantly he knows the reasons and the method for the madness.

God has a message tucked into your heart.  Inside you are the testimony someone else needs to see.  You are God’s avenue for someone else to get to know him.  The burden is there and the struggle is a ribbon of hope and faith for someone to embrace and grasp by seeing God in you.

What is your message today?  Each struggle and difficulty you have is God’s way of using and showing others what he can do.  We may never understand it we may never realize it and we may never grasp how it all comes together. That isn’t our job that is God’s job.  Our job is to follow his promptings, depend on him, and pray for him to use us and walk us through it and let it go at that.  Sometimes it is hard, sometimes it makes no sense and most of the time we never see or know about the seed that we planted or watered.  God tends to all that.  You are the messenger.  You are the runner and the courier.  You are the Bible others read when there isn’t another one around.  Can you do it? I don’t know, maybe or maybe not!  Can God do it in you? Of course, he can! He does it every minute of every day.  Don’t ever underestimate how God is using you.  Never undervalue how God is going to use what you know, who you are and the trials you have seen to help someone else.

You are special.  Remember God don’t make no junk.  Get up, regroup, take a stand and go forward Christian soldier because today is a new day!

~ Sunrise Over the Rockies ~

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~ Sunrise Over the Rockies ~

Comments Off 10 January 2011

Sunrise Over the Rockies

With my nose pressed hard against the glass I watched the terrain move by.  Snow covered every peak and I could only imagine the cold from my seat in the plane high above.  As the plane banked subtly to the west you see the red glow of the approaching sunrise as it teased the horizon.

My flight from Sal Lake City had departed before six in the morning and I was anxious to get back to Texas.  I looked below and in the dim morning light the vastness of the terrain below reminded me just how sheltered and naïve I really am.  I get in my own little zone sometimes and forget there is a whole big world out there that has absolutely nothing to do with me.

God is at work in every little crook and cranny of the world and his splendor and grace abound for all of us.  Suddenly, the sun peaked over the horizon and because of my seat I could see how the light caressed some places while others would have to wait awhile before they felt the light and warmth.

God’s light and warmth is there no matter the circumstances or situations.  Sometimes it may take a minute for us to realize it or feel it but it is there always.  As I watched the sun climb the shadows diminished and the light illuminated the snow packed peaks of the rugged mountain passages.

My drive into Salt Lake City earlier had revealed the glistening glitter of the snow packed roads and I knew the mountains glittered as well.  I just couldn’t see it from thirty thousand feet in the air.  God is there for us in the warmth of the salted sandy beaches and he is there for us in the jagged edges of the mountain peaks. Be it the mesquite and brush of West Texas or the sweetness of the tropics His light is the warmth that assures us, no matter what, that all is going well and going to be okay.

My vantage point above the Rocky Mountains gave me a new perspective.  God’s world isn’t just about me.  God’s world is all of us no matter where we are and what we are dealing with.  God’s world is each one of us in our situations and circumstances and he never ever leaves us to fend for ourselves.  His vastness is bigger than the Rocky Mountains and wider than the sky. There is nothing he cannot handle or take care of if we will only give him the opportunity to do so and trust and have the faith that he will be there for us.

Suddenly fluffy white clouds with a cotton candy texture obstructed my view below.  The terrain below disappeared and for a minute I couldn’t see anything.  As quickly as the terrain and sun disappeared it appeared again.  God is there for us, moving in and out, around and about monitoring each of his children and addressing our needs.

Take his hand today and let him be your priority.  Let him love you and care for you.  He is always there and he never abandons us.

I leaned back in my chair and closed my eyes.  Thank you, Lord, for all you are and all we can be through you.

Be Blessed This Day!

I Want to Know You!

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I Want to Know You!

Comments Off 19 December 2010

I Want to Know You!

Daniel came running into the room and jumped across the couch into my lap.

“Did you know my hairs are numbered?” he said excitedly. “My Sunday school teacher said the hairs on our head have numbers. God put them there.”  His enthusiasm was almost contagious.  No wonder scripture teaches we should become like little children.

God does know us.  From the hairs of our head to the inner most parts of our being He knows each and every one of us.  He knows our every movement, our intentions, our motivations, our thoughts and all those things we wish he didn’t know.

In the soft silence of our beginnings God was there first where he originated our most inward and private parts.  Before I ever have a thought myself God knows its origins, its purpose, its destination and the end result.

Despite my failings and misgivings, my mistakes and my wrong choices God, who loves me beyond all understanding, knows what makes me tick.  He knows what will set me off in a fit of anger and he knows what will bring me to my knees.

God has a plan.  ”All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.”

“I want to know you, when you breathe I want to breathe with you and when you cry I want to feel the tears” (from a song recorded by Jodi Rogers).

God loves you in all your splendor or in all your garbage, whichever the case may be.   He loves you where you are right now and only wants for you to accept that love.  He, who reached into your life when you were merely a tiny embryo, wants to change you forever.

He knows what you are and what you can become.  Let the Lord of Lords fulfill his purpose for you with a love that endures forever.  He will never abandon the work of his hands.

Fulfill the promise God has for you by saying yes to a love you cannot fathom or understand.  Remember He knows you and the reasons you do the things you do.  And better than that—He loves you anyway!

Be Blessed This Day!